In this world you can easily get the trust you wanted in one person but dont forget to remember the sooner you get it the sooner it will be gone when you do some wrong in order to feel them disappointed with you.Trusting is very important in one relationship without this what you have is doubts and many wrong speculation comes on your mind and it come to the point that the love and the respect gone too if this happen i could say its the hardest part and the most painful we can have to feel.But what if you do some lies to protect someone because they ask you some favor not to mention those secret to people involve for the both of you and you kept it due to respect the person that gives you the someone in your life…Someone becomes your greatest love,treasure in life,man in fantasy and the love of your life….It is trully when it comes in loving no one is perfect,everybody become blind and the worse you can drop the friendship over your relationship with them without thinking the real reason why it happen those things.It sometimes biase you can realized if the person you choose done wrong with you and you see with your own eyes how they treat you badly see them in other arms,flirting with someone else then all you have to do is cry and blame yourself not to listen with friends you trust and trully care for you now you have to do is to eat your pride and turn back to them and say sorry and beg to forgive you and of course true friendship is always there no matter what happen they still accept you with open arms and cheer you up and told you lets forget everything and lets start anew one this words can easily take away all the pain and hurts you have…But dont forget too that everything has limitation if you did it once,twice why you allow yourself to do it over and over again if you have many choices to pick up dont waste your time and effort in one thing that you can never assure it will be yours forever try to open your eyes widely there lot of things on your way.I hope all of you got some lesson for this blogs it honestly comes from the buttom of my heart and it actually what im facing nowadays hope you enjoy reading..take care and God bless us mwaahh….

What To Know If He Wants To Stay Single

Hello,good day once again mga friendship...i wanted to share message i got from my inbox come and read it...let's see if naexperience mo na to and come to think and analyze these....hope you enjoy reading and me lesson kyo....

Hey,Have you recently met and connected with a great guy who makes you feel excited and happy... Only to have him suddenly pull away after a couple of great dates, with no explanation?Why do some men so predictably shut off this wayonce things could go somewhere real?Sure, there are a whole bag of "issues" a man might have that could explain why he'd withdraw... But you might have also noticed that when a good guy connects with a woman, he can go from confirmed bachelor who never wants to get married to a love-stricken man who can't help but want more with her.In other words, men can and do change their mindson what they want. And this is largely based onhow a woman makes them FEEL.Is it possible that a man you've had a few great dates with - who didn't call back or want more - stop "feeling it" for you because you made one of the one crucial mistakes lots of women make that will quickly close a man off and push him away?If you're not sure, then it's time you found out.

Hey Teresa, What makes a man want to stay single? And what makes a man want to stay singleand not have a relationship even when he's dating an amazing woman? Keep reading to find out. Here's something you should know... Did you know that most men make up theirminds about whether they'd "get serious" and try out a relationship within the first few minutes of having met a woman? It's true. If you don't know what to say or do early on to get a man's interest for the RIGHT REASONS... then the first "exchanges" between you two could keep him from ever wanting to explore a relationship with you. I see it happen all the time... A woman meets a fantastic guy and they hit it off. The chemistry is amazing. They laugh, talk, and have tons of things in common. It just feels right. They go out several times and end up getting "physical" early on. And since all the basic elements are there to start a great relationship, and this guy seemslike he could be "the one", the woman starts to really open up. But just as she's becoming more and moreEMOTIONALLY INVOLVED, the truth comes out... The man has ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST in having a real relationship. He says something like: "It's not you... it's me." Or... "I'm just not interested in a relationshipright now." Or... "You're great, but if we went out I know we'd get serious really quickly and I'm notready for all that. I don't want to hurt you." Give me a nod here if you know what I'm talking about. If you've experienced this kind of thingbefore, then you know that men will come up with every excuse in the book to try and AVOID a relationship. Sometimes it seems like men's minds aresimply searching for every possible excuse or way out. That way they don't have to deal with the fact that there's an amazing woman right in front of them who could be the love of their lives. So let me ask you... Why is finding the right person such a bad thing to men? And what can YOU do as a woman to avoid allthese "traps" that other women constantly walkinto and trigger with men that keep them fromever finding and starting the relationship thatthey really want? Good questions. After years and years of thinking about allthis, of talking to men and women, and spendingyears observing and studying what's really goingon at a deeper level... I've discovered somethingthat TONS of women are doing when meeting anddating men that INSTANTLY pushes that WITHDRAWALbutton where a man will not only not want to get any closer to a woman... But he'll want to get away from her altogether. Don't be one of the many women who keep on making this mistake without even knowing it. For an in-depth explanation of why a man willseem interested but not want more, and to learn how to make sure love comes together when you finally meet the right man for you... go here right now and discover this "breakthrough" I'vefinally uncovered about men and dating:
It's one thing when you're dating a man andhe tells you he doesn't want a relationship, andthat he isn't ready. But here's where it gets even more bizarreand PREDICTABLE when it comes to men and howthey think about dating and new relationships... After a man dates you and says he's NOT READYfor a relationship, unless you're the unlucky kind of woman who likes to torture herself by trying to CONVINCE a man that he should want a relationship with you... you listen and move on. You try and respect the fact that, for whatever reason, he's not in a place wherehe's capable of having a real relationship. But for lots of women, this is when the unthinkable happens... A few weeks or months later you can't believewhat you hear- This same man who was dead-set on staying single and not having a relationship is suddenly IN LOVE with ANOTHER WOMAN. And to add insult to injury... things are getting very "serious" and moving very, very quickly for him with this other woman. What! What's going on here? For most women, it's in these moments thata few "truths" become clear to you:1) Men don't know what they want... How many times have you had a man say onething, or show you that he felt or thought onething... but then he did something that was completely the opposite? Why does a man do this? Is he lying? Did he mean to deceive you and hurt you? Or did he do this for another reason? What if I told you that when a man likesyou and is interested... he'll often say thingsabout the way he feels about you just to get your interest and attention? And what if I told you that these thingsthat he thought and felt could change VERY, VERYQUICKLY as you're getting to know each otherand "dating"? Would that change the way you think aboutmen and how they don't know what they want? It should.2) You can't trust what a man tells you... If you're a woman who's been hurt before in a relationship, then odds are you're findingit hard to believe a man or trust him much furtherthan you could throw him. It's understandable. But did you know that if you've been hurtfrom a past relationship and you carry somedoubt and fear about men in general... Then no matter how you try and come across to him... a man will sense this inside you when you go out with him - even if you don't say anything about it or mention it. Your inability to trust a man won't allowyou to "connect" with him on a deeper level. And without that CONNECTION where a manfeels like you really "get" him... he'll neverget past that superficial level of conversationand start becoming EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED anddrawn to you. In other words... the fear that you havethat he'll turn out like other men that you'veknown will "leak" out in subtle ways. And itwill not only keep you both from growing closer... but it will give him the intuitivefeeling that something is off, and he'll leave. If you're talking to a new man in your lifeor dating and you have the bad experiences ofthe past in your mind... you're practicallyguaranteeing failure for yourself and for therelationship you're trying to get started. Men don't like and don't feel comfortableor attracted to a woman who is full of doubt andfear from her past relationships. It's a HUGE turn-off.3) Men don't make any sense to you... There's something that keeps coming up over and over in my life that's I find absolutelyfascinating... It's that everywhere I go I meet smart womenwho are what a friend of mine calls "Man-Stupid." Raise your hand if you're guilty of thisyourself. It's amazing to me how many brilliant, smart,sweet, caring, wise and loving women I've metwho have failure after failure when it comes tomen, dating, and relationships. And for these smart women, since they're socapable and successful in every other area of their life... they can't believe that they wouldn't be able to make things work with a man in a relationship. But here's the fatal mistake they make... They think that the fact that they are smart,educated, capable, successful, etc. in otherareas of life should somehow "translate" intoknowing what to do when it comes to men and theirlove life. But nothing could be farther from the truth. In fact, the belief that you know how thingswork with men and dating just because you're awoman and you think about these things all thetime and you really want love to work out in yourlife actually works against you. Why does this work against you? Simply put - because it keeps you from everaccepting the fact that you don't know what youneed to know about how men think, and how thingswork when it comes to a real and lasting relationship with a man. There's a kind of subtle shame that I'velearned some women carry because they think thatthey were born not knowing something that everyother woman was born knowing. Wrong! Not knowing how men think, and how men reallyare different when it comes to dating and whatcatches a his attention and interest isn't asign of a "dumb" or incapable woman. It's simply a sign that you haven't takenthe time to learn what actually works. Luckily, I've put together what I think ofas the world's best resource to help any woman, at any level of "Man-Stupid"... quickly get herself up to speed with how men think and WHAT WORKS to catch a man's interest from the firstmeeting to when a man can't help but say "I loveyou". Don't set yourself up for failure when youmeet a man and start a new relationship becauseyou haven't taken the time to stop doing whathasn't been working all these years... andstart doing what works with a man.thanks and see yah next time..mwaahh

bluer than blue....

bluer than blue sadder than sad You're the only life this empty room has ever had Life without you is gonna be Bluer than blue..hayzzz emote to the max naman aketch today kaya naman nagawi ang landas ko sa pag gawa ng blogs sa tulong ng aking friendship na si kaye,hehe(tnx sis bait mo talaga mwaah)i feel bored kse this day bakeet nga ba?uhmm wla kse ako makausap wait ko isang taong nagpapasaya sa araw ko ngunit sa anuman dahilan wla sya(as usual busyness)minsan nde natin maiwasan ang ganitong feelings mahirap malayo sa taong mahal mo(awww)pro dahil sa mahal mo nga wla ka gagawin kundi magtiis mag-antay sa kung anuman oras sya me time for you pro xmpre nde din maalis sa tin ang magisip since malayo sya sayo marami gumugulo sa isip mo gaya ng asan kaya sya ngayon,sinu kasama nya,anu ginagawa nya miss nya kaya ako kse sya namimiss ko na super as in(hehehe)maiinis ka if nde masagot mga katanungan na to pero wag ka pag anjan na sya napapawi lahat ng bad emotions mo(hayzzz pag-ibig nga naman,sadyang powerful)mga wrinkles mo sa muka bgla napapalitan ng mga ngiti nde mapantayan,hehehe pra bang love is on the air ang drama,lols..pro panu if ang love affair nyo ay nagstart lang sa net at nde pa kyo nagmeet in person,do you consider it as a real relationship?meron kse ako nabasa article na nagsasabi nde daw matatawag na for real relationship yun kse marami maiiwan sa isip nyo puzzle dahil limit lang ang information na makukuha nyo sa kausap nyo kung baga sa 100% ,10% lang pwede mo malaman and the rest is history at since madami nagkakalat na issue na maraming manloloko sa net at maraming jafake sa tabi tabi pro depende din ata yan sa tao if anu ang paniniwala nyo nde din naman nabase yun sa presence ng isang tao kundi sa kung anu tunay mo nafifeel sa taong kachat mo the way you trust respect love and care that person it would be for real...ako at first i wont consider my relationship a real one(sa kachatmate ko foreign)pro as days goes by na nagseselos na ako nahurt ako at nagdedemand ng time nya as i ask myself a hundred times yes i am this is for real paki ko if pagtawanan ako ng mga tao alam ko sa sarili ko nde ako nag-iisa marami kagaya ko naginvest ng feelings na nde pa nila nakikita,kse yun lang ang kulang eh nde mo pa sya natouch at nakikita personally pro yung love na feel mo deep inside of your heart is for real then your relationship can called a REAL one,db?as long as you know and understand each other and happy naman kyo go lang sabi nga nila its better to have loved and lost than lost without loved at all mas mahirap yun konsensya mo kalaban mo,hehehe naku sarap pla ng feeling na ilahad mo anuman nsa loob mo gaya ng ginawa ko ngayon so panu til next time mahaba haba na din naman to sana me napulot kyo aral sa mga sinabi ko,lolz(sure ba ako sa sinabi ko aral daw waaaa)gotta go po merienda time muna aketch hanggang sa muli mwaahh...