If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you,be gentle with yourself,there is nothing wrong with you.Love just didnt choose to rest in others person heart, if you find someone else in love with you and you dont love him/her,feel honored that love came and knocked your door, but gently refuse the gift that you can nott return.if you fall inlove with another and he/ she fall inlove with you and the love chooses to leave do not try to reclaim it and assess blame. Let it GO!there is a reason and there is a meaning..you will know in time.Remember!you dont choose love,LOVE CHOOSES YOU! All you can really do is accept it for all mystery when it comes to your life.Feel the way it fills you to overflowing then reach out and give it away.Give it back to person who brought it alive in you.Give it to others who are deem poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.This is where many lovers go wrong.having been so long without love,they understand love only as a bed,they see their heart empty places that will be filled with love,and they begin to look as love as something that flows to them rather from them. Remember this and keep it to your heart,love has its own time,its own seasons,and its owns reason for coming and going.You cannot bribe it or coerce it,or reason it on staying,you can only embrace it when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or the heart of your love,there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.Love always had been and always will be mystery.Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.If you keep your heart open it will come again.Failure is the only way to start again intelligently....